molly
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Post by molly on Apr 25, 2012 17:55:40 GMT -5
I'm so glad Damon has a Lesbian troll free site. A place where you can express yourself freely without having to defend oneself against Trolls who love to stir up trouble. This is my first message here and look forward to hopefully interacting with some wonderful straight spouses.
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Post by nestlealand on Apr 26, 2012 0:41:25 GMT -5
Hey, Molly. Yes, troll free, and most days I wish we had more people stumbling across it. It's hard to get much accomplished over in SSN land with Voldemort over there pitching fits. It's a shame becoming the bi/lez/wtf she is now clearly didn't bring her happiness. She just wants to feed on str8 flesh. Anywho. Life will go on!
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Post by Damon on Apr 26, 2012 9:38:35 GMT -5
Greetings my friends! I am so glad that you both stopped by.
Honestly, it takes a lot of effort not to engage the troll on the SSN board, but over time I have found that she only feeds off of the anger and appears to really enjoy engaging and arguing with the members there. So rather than fight that battle, I decided to create this board so that I could ensure that the members here have a place to go and voice their opinions without being belittled or branded a bigot.
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Post by Steve on Apr 26, 2012 16:21:00 GMT -5
Hello Lovlies Once again this is just going to have to play itself out. Sam (admin) is obviously trying his best deleting the worst of the vitriol. I feel for him. But that board has been through firestorms in the past. It will survive. The board itself is not my concern however... It's the people... the people deserately needing help but who are too shit-scared to post. While she is there making it uncomfortable for people we should draw people's attention to this board. It's a shame it has to be this way.... but thanks Damon for your concern and your effort.
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Post by nestlealand on Apr 26, 2012 16:35:11 GMT -5
And Sam does a fine job of deleting her crap; the problem, of course, comes in that she posts plenty of other drivel that is innocuous enough except for the fact that when she is around, she "marks territory" constantly. As I write this, Voldeportia is the last commenter on 3 of the top five posts, and most of that is just her touting how wonderful she is and how aweful "we" are. I've figured out who she is, and it's positively disgusting that someone like her would engage in this kind of behavior. I'd be more comfortable hanging out in here for a while, maybe even setting times for chat sessions with the folks who need it most. I wish I had more confidence that she'll go away if ignored. She seems peculiarly intent on making a splash right now. But I'll trust my "senior" members on this episode and pray that she finds a shiny new object to go deal with. Like, oh, I don't know, her @#$%ing job.
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molly
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Post by molly on Apr 26, 2012 17:15:49 GMT -5
Hey guys, I'm gonna hang here for awhile so that Portia can get this out of her system. Seriously, she has issues returning to a board that doesn't want her. She isn't fighting the good fight. Today, she using typical Lawyer strategy and appear sensitive. I, too worry about those in pain that truly need help I remember the initial pain I experienced and continue to experience at times. Brad and I are good friends. I'm gonna ask him to hang here. I tell you, he has been such a good friend to me when the world seems to crash around me. He makes me laugh when I don't want to. I worry about SSN right now because some people that post have their posts judged and picked apart. These people are in pain and aren't thinking about the PC themes. I'm just glad that we can continue to help folks right here. It's a Gay is OK society and we all need each other. You guys are great!! Now, about licking things off Nestle's six pack. I have never tried caviar, but I'd be willing!! LOL!!!
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Post by brandon on Apr 26, 2012 17:25:32 GMT -5
Hey brothas & sistas. Good to see this board getting some action. It's kind of like a storm shelter when the other place is showering down shit. I try to ignore it, but it's almost impossible to do when she's around. She is never going to go away. I think I discovered SSN about the same time she had her first war on there. She says she is going to leave us be, but like hemorrhoids, she always reappears. Who the hell wants support from a lesbian, excuse me, bisexual, who was married to a man. Divorced str8 man, now she loves women and is paired up with a woman transitioning to a man. She is definitely a man hater. At any rate, hopefully I will catch up with some of you in the chat room one of these days.
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Post by the first Aaron on Apr 26, 2012 21:27:33 GMT -5
I love trolls! What's the problem? Or you mean Portia! Thats really not far to trolls now is it.
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Post by THE first Aaron on Apr 26, 2012 21:29:29 GMT -5
I meant fair
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Post by Barbie on Apr 26, 2012 23:04:46 GMT -5
Very grateful there is another website for straight spouses. Thank goodness for the support.
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Post by nestlealand on Apr 27, 2012 16:20:07 GMT -5
Well, I haven't seen a troll-post (that hasn't been taken down) in roughly 24hrs, so hopefully this means Voldeportia has found a rape-victim support group to harrass or a puppy to kick or whatever it is she does when she's not on SSN. It's about to be the freakin' weekend, so I'm gonna go nice and quiet.
Brandon, you hit the nail on the head: she's a man hater. But I'd take it a step further; she hates herself, too, and only feels like a real girl when a real man is yelling at her. It's why she can't stay away. She doesn't care if SSN is a safe community for str8s or not; she wants negative attention. Portia purported to respond cordially to Tricia's call to let the men emote as they need to, but then paragraphs deep into her BS, she called Aaron a "petulent child." Why? Because if we are anything other than the angry homophobes she wants us to be, she will have no chance of getting her psychosis fed. Real loving nurturer, that one. Anyway, I bring it up because the last time ANYONE used the phrase "petulent child" on the forum was when Portia faked a post from an anonymous str8 husband on her own thread (curiously listing the names of male forum participants "he" didn't want help from), claiming he needed help since he feared he was indulging his small daughter too much and making her a "petulent child." Portia IMMEDIATELY posted a response to her fake post, offering all kinds of canned hematochezia. It was absolutely pathetic.
Sadly, Aaron, I think you may be right. A troll will get bored and go away. We've seen it. Portia? She must suck at her day job, because she clearly doesn't have enough to keep her busy.
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Post by Sam on Apr 28, 2012 13:24:52 GMT -5
Portia actually contacted me to ask me to ban her. She can't help herself??? Well I banned her employer, she does have a home IP that is not fixed so that will be more difficult. Board is troll free for now.
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Post by Steve on Apr 28, 2012 19:00:22 GMT -5
Thanks for letting us know Sam.
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Post by esther on Apr 29, 2012 6:08:42 GMT -5
I don't know what to say about Portia. I hate when she attacks. On the other hand- I'm up for the fight. And responding to her vitriole has really made me think-and probably not in the way she hoped. She is VERY confused. Besides - it's the STRAIGHT spouse network- which negates her . It's great to have another forum in which to talk to you all.
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Post by Steve on Apr 29, 2012 14:34:26 GMT -5
It's actually a forum for people who are in (or who have been in) mixed orientation marriages so in that sense Portia qualifies to be there. <<< THAT is not the problem.
The problem is how she acts or interacts once she’s on the forum.
I could give my take on the whole thing but the truth is it’s best not to even talk about Portia. Hopefully she has moved on permanently.
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